Don’t Cry for Me Sudan

24 May

Link to clips of the movie

Recommended song to listen to while reading the post

I peruse the paper from time to time, reading about the facebook IPO, gossips of China’s fallen leader Bo Xi Lai, and the violence of Mexico’s drug cartel. I want to be informed, educated, and I have an unwarranted feeling that whatever news that is in the newspaper must be important. After about an hour later, I feel like a human automaton, my eyes shifting from one word to next, aimlessly trying to gather more facts and trying to impress myself with how much I know. Very rarely does any of these news or stories shake the tip of my fingers, rib cages, and heart forcefully that I have to pause for a while to reflect on who I am.

I came across a Korean documentary, Don’t Cry for Me Sudan, when my close friend La, gave me a Korean contemporary movie collection as a present. On the cover of the DVD, there was a man with a bright smile surrounded by African children who were waving their hands in the air with joy. The story is about a Korean Catholic priest named Lee Tae Suk who sacrificed his entire life for the people who are bitterly abandoned by the world.

Lee Tae Suk was born in South Korea in a single-mom household as the ninth of ten children. After graduating from a medical school, he chose to be ordained as a Catholic priest and went to Tonj, South Sudan, to become the only doctor in the neighborhood. From HIV to leprosy patients, Priest Lee Tae Suk put all of his waking time to better the lives of these patients. He built Tonj’s first hospital, installed a sunlight powered electricity generator to power the refrigerator for the vaccines, established the first school, founded the first brass band in South Sudan, and became the first outside figure to be a friend, teacher, and father to the people of Tonj.

In his book, Would you be my friend?, Priest Lee says, “At first I made many plans because these people [in South Sudan] were so poor. But, as time passed, I realized that the most important thing is to be with them. No matter what kind of difficulty I may face, I want to stay by their side.” To soothe children torn by war and violence, he shared with them the gift of music and opportunities for education.

Words are beautiful because that’s sometimes our only weapon against injustice. But words backed by actions show character and courage. Winston Churchill once said, “A man does what he must – in spite of personal consequences, in spite of obstacles and dangers and pressures – and that is the basis of all human morality.” May God bless Lee, the epitome of human morality.

Subway

11 May

This is a story of a subway ride that I wanted to write for a long time. The event took place on November 26, 2011.

Subway is a fascinating place. I like the subway because it is a place where I can become a nobody. For that moment in time, I can mingle with strangers without words and expectations. I have about three seconds to figure out their life stories. Three seconds is a fleeting time, but many things in life are fleeting. There is got to be more depth to this, but that’s to be explored in another topic.

On that particular day, three seconds was all it took for someone to be hit by the train. The train I was on stopped and we all looked outside to see what was happening to the man across from us. The paramedics came and one man with his head busted was carried out from the rails. His life would never be the same again.

What struck me even more was the people’s reaction to the event taking place outside. Some were video taping the entire process to be posted on YouTube. A guy sitting across from me with tear drops tattooed on his face seemed passive but quietly amused about the fuss that was going around him. There was a man in his late-thirties with a teenage girl who said, “I can’t take this wait anymore, I think I will jump out of this goddamn train and climb the wall on the other side.” The girl looked amazed and impressed by that comment. “Really? Is that possible?” she asked.

Way to go to impress a teenage girl in this situation.

As for me, I think I was a bit dazed. The lights were turned off and I felt helpless. I wondered what made the guy jump to the rails. Maybe he believed in afterlife. We can create all kinds of universe in our minds. Minds can make us do things that are unreasonable. I think it’s okay to be unreasonable. But it is not okay to let ourselves go. Sadness strike us at the most unexpected times, but I hope that I will find strength to be blind and start over.

 

What the movie New Year’s Eve makes me think

22 Dec

The movie New Year’s Eve is a romantic comedy that traces how lives of completely unrelated couples and singles loop together on a New Year’s Eve. Watching this movie made me realize how our lives intermingle together without us even noticing. Funny how we go through our lives immediately crossing lines between people who we can become friends with and people who we cannot (or more likely don’t want to because they’re not cool enough) become friends with.

Families and friends mean a lot to me. But there are times in our lives when a random encounter or kindness from a stranger affect us more than we ever imagined possible. I sympathized with Stan Harris (played by Robert De Niro), a man in the final stages of cancer who is taken care by a kind nurse Aimee (played by Halle Berry). Aimee selflessly takes care of Stan right up to the moment when Stan’s daughter drops by just in time before the New Year’s ball drops. Aimee sports her new sexy dress in front of her co-workers and excitedly walks back home, when I realize that her husband is a solider stationed in the Middle East. Watching Aimee painfully groping over the computer screen of her husband’s image, I wondered what was keeping Aimee so strong.

I also found it refreshing how Ingrid (played by Michelle Pfeiffer) finds the courage to quit her job as a Ahren Records secretary, and sets out to lead her own life with the help of a deliveryman Paul (played by Zac Efron).

Ingrid has a special wish list, which includes things like “Go to Bali,” “Travel around the World,” “Save a Life,” “Drive through New York City without any traffic,” and  ”Be Amazed.” Using a bit of imagination such as going to a massage spa in Brooklyn instead going to Bali, and spontaneity, Ingrid is able to complete her dream list that she has longed to do her entire lifetime. Ingrid to me represents our inner desire. We all have lists of things that we always wanted to try out, but never had a chance to. Most of times, we feel too comfortable blaming it on our busy lives or on other people. I think this New Year’s Eve, expressing some of these inner desires, bringing them to life would be a step to rediscovering who we are.

The population of the world is going to hit 7 billion soon. The world was supposed to end in 2012. Today, I’m going to reflect on all the things that I’m thankful to have and let out the Ingrid in me.

 

Last Days of Summer

21 Oct

Riverpark- a Tom Colicchio Restaurant

14 Oct

So last week, I had a wonderful brunch at a restaurant called Riverpark overlooking the East River in Manhattan.

Especially after some of my favorite restaurants in New Haven have failed their inspection tests, this was definitely a nice switch for

me.

 

The building that Riverpark is a garden plaza which has both indoors and outdoors seating.

This is what you see when you walk in…..

 

 

All of the vegetables cooked at the restaurant are produced at a local farm that is located right next to the restaurant.

Dubbed as NYC’s “most urban farm”, it was fun to contrast the soaring skyscrapers vs. the green, fresh farm produce.

All of the foods at Riverpark were just mouthwatering. Starting with a guacamole appetizer on olive oil bread……

Followed up by Fried Chicken Biscuit Sliders, Vegetarian Madame Croquet, and Pork Belly Sandwich, and of course

Mango and Greek Frozen Yogurt Dessert, it was an afternoon of pure delight.

Grilled Bread&Avocado

 

 

 

Smoked Pork Belly

 

 

 

Fried Chicken Biscuit Sliders

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Steak burgers and Fries…..Yum!!

Smoked Brisket

Greek-style Frozen Yogurt

Let’s also not forget the birthday doughnut that the restaurant kindly prepared for us. Raul, if you looking this, Happy Birthday again!!

The birthday Cinnamon Doughnuts!

 

As for other things in life, classes started yet again. Did couple of new photo shoots, which I should also be

uploading pretty soon hopefully. It’s midterm season at Yale again, so I’m using this blog as means of

extra procrastination. Hope you enjoyed the food. :-)

 

Later,

Vela

 

Rafael Cennamo Fall’11 Collection

17 Sep

NY Fashion Week Venexiana Finale

15 Sep

So Designer Kati Stern returns again with her edgy but luxurious look. I love how she mixes laces and chiffon together without overdoing it.

Thanks Kati, you have just made my day AGAIN.

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